“Say the right things”


The way that we speak says a lot about our personalities, and in turn, create distinct vibes. When you’re talking to a woman, you don’t want to create an uncomfortable atmosphere. You want to create a feeling of affirmation and positivity. This is the power of positive and negative language – what you want to do or don’t want to do. Speaking in statements comprised solely of affirmative statements, rather than negatives, can be difficult. It’s a very effective way to draw a woman to you, though, and worth attempting.

Negative language only serves to create a negative, oppressive atmosphere. A potent way to prevent negative thoughts from pervading your conversation and the mood is to counter negative statements with positive ones, according to HuffingtonPost.com. For example, if you’re at a party, when she asks if you like the food at the party, instead of saying you don’t like the mushrooms, pick something you do like. Don’t default to complaints. Not only does it make you look like high maintenance and childish, but it’s also insulting to your host. However, the same principle goes if you’re in a Toronto bar or club. When people complain and especially guys, it sounds very whiny and unappealing to just about anyone around you. By keeping up the habit of positive, affirmative speech, you’ll be far more pleasant to be around. Although a few well placed, sarcastic jokes are all well and good, don’t go overboard. If you complain about something in the first conversation you ever have with a woman, she’s not going to want to continue to talk to you. Whether you’re looking for flings for married people or just your average single lady, mastering language and how it shapes a conversation is a useful skill.

Going beyond negative language are also general words that women don’t like. Some of them might surprise you, but it’s true. Here are a few tips for when positive and negative language opportunities come up and how you can re-phrase to.

A Can Do Attitude

“Impress her with your attitude”


People constantly use the “I can’t” expression to claim that they’re unable to do something. There are two ways to combat the negative impression this gives. One is to rephrase if you really can’t do something, and say that you can do something else. For example, if you’re looking for flings with married people and your hookup gets tired of being the other woman, don’t say that you can’t tell your wife the truth. Instead, say that you’re happy you can talk about your life with your fling and you enjoy her company. Try not to use the “can’t” word.

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“Avoid the cheesy lines”


We’ve all done it – used a word for a woman that sounds a little cheesy or is considered somewhat sexist. Babes, hotties, chicks, girls, tail. Whatever your preferred word, women don’t like this. The vast majority of them find it insulting, but because it’s so expected from men, half the time they don’t even bother correcting us. If it gets excessive they’ll say something, but every time one of these words is uttered, you can rest assured that you’re pissing off the lady you’re with. In fact, if you’re on the other side of the equation, this is one of the reasons that flings with married people happen in the first place. Women get sick of their husbands saying these words, so they go out looking for something better that doesn’t drive them crazy. Get ahead of the game and be aware of what you’re saying. Not only will avoiding words for women other than “women” prevent you from falling victim to these follies, it will even win you points. Women notice when you make an effort to be respectful and it’s usually a major turn-on for them.

Bragging Rights: Denied

“Don’t brag too much”


You might be the hottest guy in Toronto and in great demand by the female population. However, if you tell a woman that, she’s going to laugh in your face. You might have hooked up with five different ladies last week, but talking about it isn’t going to make her think you’re virile. Bragging just makes you come off as conceited and obnoxious. At the same time, you also want to let her know that you’re desirable and accomplished. The way to handle this situation is to understand the difference between bragging and subtly building up your image.

When you first start talking to a woman, don’t go into the conversation focusing on yourself. Ask about her, and let her lead. This is a surefire way to at least get a conversation going, and once you’re talking, it’s easier to progress. Ask her questions, and let her sing her own praises first. After that, it’s ok to go ahead and share the fact that you got a promotion last month. The key to conveying your accomplishments is context. If you just burst out with the information that you have a really nice car and enjoy going on dates to fancy restaurants, she’s not going to care. You’ll come off as full of yourself. Instead, insert that information subtly into the conversation.

Let’s say you meet a woman who’s a foodie and you start talking about cooking. You can’t just announce that you want to take her out to dinner at the most expensive place in Toronto. Instead, slip in that you went to a high end restaurant last weekend, and give her your opinion on the entree you ordered. This camouflages the that you’re trying to let her know you’ve got some taste and resources by focusing on the subject of the conversation, and not on the fact that you ate there at all. Talk around the impressive parts of your life you want to highlight, and just let them hang there. She’ll remember, and she’s probably already taking mental notes about the little details you’re throwing in.

The Difference Between Requests and Demands

One of the most common measuring sticks for women while dating of a man’s demeanor is how you treat animals and wait staff. For this reason, be careful about the differences between requests and demands, and especially in regard to the woman you’re seeing. Demanding guys are unappealing to women and come off more like children than men. Women don’t want to date a giant boy. They want a man who can carry himself properly and calmly obtain what he wants with calm requests, and not demands.

For example, if you take a woman to dinner on a date, you’re going to be ordering food and dealing with service. It may not be satisfactory, and you may need to be critical or request things. It might be completely fine, but be prepared to speak the right way. If you start ordering wait staff around in front of your date and being rude, there’s a good chance she might just walk out on her own. When a man makes demands, it also gives off the even more damaging impression that he can’t get what he wants without force. On the other hand, if you can get your own way by being slick and presenting requests firmly, you seem like you’re in control. Women like a man in control since its steadying.

Leave the angry demands at home, and handle yourself with politeness and a firm request. You’ll sweep her off her feet. To get more tips on fling dating online, visit flingsitereviews.ca, read a real review of a website to make a decision.

Blogging can be quite fun and can even churn up some money if you know how to go about this business and benefit the most. Blogging calls for some creativity to create interesting content. Also, marketing properly and knowing what is in demand helps a lot. You can come up with useful content once you decide the theme around which you blog should revolve and what exactly you wish to express through your blog.

Common blogging mistakes

Theme- A theme is like the center and axis of your blog around which all your content should revolve. Many people just go for random topics that end up not being popular. Even though you can choose to emphasize more than one of your interests or central idea behind your content, it is best that you stick with that throughout. Read up popular blogs and know what gaps are there in the theme that you are endorsing. Try your hand at filling up the voids and going for something unique rather than the run of the mill topics.

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Top 10 Blogging Mistakes You Should Avoid

It should make sense- With more and more bloggers being concerned about search engine optimization, stuffing their posts with keywords is the latest trend. The key to do search engine optimization properly is to go for similar phrases revolving around your topic and to use them wherever they fit and make sense. Be sure to focus on your content rather than the keywords. Make sure the topic and content is eye catching. Learn all about good blogging practices. This will help you stay on top and make your mark easily.

Comments and feedback- They are a way of knowing how your posts are being received. React to positive comments by accepting properly and showing your gratitude. Deal with negative ones in a cool and calm manner. Be sure to be polite in all cases. Make sure you also comment in a thoughtful manner on other blogs. This will enable other bloggers to take you seriously and comment likewise.

Be original- There can be severe repercussions if you think you can pick up some article and modify it to post on your blog. There are copyright laws and other such infringement issues. So, be sure to be original. Go for something that you are passionate about. This will help you express yourself better. Do not just copy ideas. Try and come up with a unique style of your own. Draw inspiration from nature or books and movies. Decide what you want your posts to speak about you.

Go visual- Often the content can become too monotonous. Make it interesting by adding pictures, graphics, emoticons, etc. Divide the content into paragraphs. The title should be catchy so that your reader’s attention is drawn to your post almost instantly. Proofread your articles and eliminate all grammatical and spelling errors. Make sure the blog is navigation friendly. Promote your posts with enthusiasm.

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Most Common Blog Formatting Mistakes You Should Avoid

Blogging tips and tricks can be learned easily over time. But, first research and unique content is a must. You should be fully aware of all the features available so that you can use it to your advantage.

A wedded life includes both up and downs. And when the going gets really tough, people end up wanting to break up instead of mend things. It’s sad to say that we live in a generation where when something is destroyed, people throw it instead of fix it. Marriage is a covenant and it is meant to be worked on. If your marriage is on the rocks, the best way is to communicate with your spouse with putting these 5 rules in mind.

Rule # 1: Don’t Let Your Emotions Get the Better of You

Be level-headed when it comes to talking. No matter how hurt you are about something, chances are your partner has an explanation and is hurting as well. So set the pain and anger aside and use your brains instead of heart to talk things out. This way, you don’t make decisions based on your emotions.

Rule # 2: Agree on What the Real Issue Is

Before you can move on with discussing things out, you need to agree on what the real issue is. Often times, couples don’t recognize what the real problem is that is why they can’t resolve anything. If you are at fault, then acknowledge that you are at fault. If the problem is money, then talk about how both of you can help out in resolving it. If this rule is not followed, chaos will follow.

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Seven Ways to Save Your Marriage from Divorce

Rule # 3: Try Not To Fight with Each Other

Nasty remarks are not welcome. Name calling isn’t either. If you want a good flowing conversation with your spouse, then you will have to stop accusing, blaming, saying bad words or being verbally abusive as a whole. Besides, one probable reason why your marriage came to this point is because of fighting. In addition to this, refrain from getting physical. This will just make the situation worse.

Rule # 4: Don’t Let Other Parties in Just Yet

Don’t let other people have a say on your problems not unless both of you talk it out. Most of the time, we let our friends and family influence our decisions with our spouses without even talking it out with the person involved – the husband or the wife. Besides, this is an issue you created, so it must be an issue you yourselves must fix. If other people are trying to ruin your marriage, then it should not even be a predicament in the first place. Such people should just be ignored to the best of your powers.

Rule # 5: End With a Resolution to the Problem

One proof that you were able to talk things through properly is being able to come up with a solution. At the end of your conversation you must be able to establish how both parties can help out in eliminating the problem or problems at hand.

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THE AGONY OF DIVORCE

As mentioned, marriage is a covenant. You cannot simply give up on it and throw it away. It is essential that all marriages have a proper system of communication being followed so that issues don’t pile up unresolved. If there is one emotion that should be used, it should not be anger or pain, it should be love – the reason both of you married each other in the first place.

Its summer season! It’s time to show-off some skin and bathe under the sun. If imagining this makes you want to run for covers because of the bulges around your hips, take time to shape up. Contouring your body must be done at least three months before the summer day comes. This makes the body adjust well with the gradual decrease of weight. Exercise and proper diet makes losing weight successful.

Crunches: Effectively tone your abs

Crunch is the most famous exercise in trimming tummy. Setting aside fifteen minutes a day, three times a week is enough to tone your extra baggage. Here are three kinds of crunches to use to get that red hot summer body:

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Time To Sweat…

  1. Heel to toe crunch. This starts with a lying position facing upward. Your legs should be stretched out. You have to place your right leg on the left toe. Place your left hand under your neck and your right hand reaching the ceiling. Lift your shoulders high. Now, you can feel your abdominal muscles tightening. Pause for a few seconds and gradually return to resting position.

  2. Vertical leg crunch. Position yourself lying down, face to up and your legs straight towards the ceiling. Cross your legs, one leg other the other. Place your hands under your neck to support your neck muscles and cervical vertebra. Now, move your head upward in a 30 degree angle. Feel your abdominal muscles and crunch them. Use them as you move your head upward instead of your neck. Hold for a moment then, slowly return to resting position. You can have 15 to 25 repetitions’ of this routine.

  3. Reverse crunch. This is the reverse of sit-ups. Instead of lifting your head from the floor, you have to lift your legs. This works best for your lower abdomen and thighs. Position yourself lying down. You can do this on a stable bench or on the floor. Bring your legs up towards the ceiling. Hold for a second and slowly place it down.

Ball plank exercise

This makes use of a fitness ball. Get yourself in a plank position over a fitness ball. Your chest and arms are your support while you are on top of the ball. Your hands is positioned in lose fist and your legs and toes are on the floor. The movement here is contracting abdominal muscles and raising your upper torso at the right angle. Your body must be level up to your elbows at a 90 degrees angle. Your eyes and head must be straight ahead. Hold for 20 seconds on your first attempt. You may increase holding yourself in that position for 60 seconds or so, depending on how long you like to hold.

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Killer Ab Workout

Twisted V-seat

You have to be on a reclining position as you sit on the floor with knees bent and feet flat on the floor. You may use a fitness ball or you may just clasp your hands and stretch your arms in front of you. Now, twist your body. Your upper torso goes to the right and your lower torso goes to the left. Hold for a few seconds and rest. Do several repetitions. This routine is best for shaping your waist and hips.

The Internet has continually reshaped our world. Apart from vast sources of information, it has also become the very beacon of light for people who wish to save and invest their money without leaving the conveniences they are accustomed to. Whether you are part of the people who live from one payday to the next or among the fabulous few that drift from one shopping destination to the next, putting a lid on your finances must be carefully analyzed and thought of. Through these online financial boosters, you can guarantee raking in more money and define clearer financial goals for your future.

Shrink Your Usual Bills

Unless you are a hermit, no man ever lives with zero bills to pay. At one point or another, you will be spending on electricity, gas, tuition, food, and so on. You can try retrofitting your home with energy-saving appliances or skip that daily trip to Starbucks for a latte. However, if it is real savings you want, check out BillShrink.

Cable and phone bills are major contributor to monthly household bills. These two are considered a necessity nowadays, mind you. But with BillShrink, you easily find your way among lost-cost phone and cable plans. With its comprehensive review system on your monthly statement, you can easily find tips on how to cut cost on usage and activity. Additionally, it can also help steer you closer to low-rate credit cards, low gas prices and amazing rewards cards.

Coupons Are Man’s Best Friend

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best money Web sites

Spending is normal but spend wisely, you must. Coupons for grocery shopping can be found in CouponMom but for online shopping, try RetailMeNot. CouponMom makes searching for coupons and daily deals easier for you as it is cataloged according to city and state. It promises to lower your grocery gills to some 50% as attested by its more than 3 million site members. For online shopping, RetailMeNot is your knight in shining armor. Sign-up, choose what interests you and enjoy email alerts. With such easy-to-get money-saving codes, padding your savings through these special deals is at hand.

Dressing up Smart and Savvy Is More Like It

If only we can walk around naked that the problem with clothes can go poof on the air. Necessary as it is, kids require a steady stream of clothing as they grow. With this, ThredUP would be a great option to shop for clothes without causing a huge dent on your pockets. Here, you can buy a box of kids clothing for at least $5. Importantly, you can also sell your used ones to someone who is looking for a bargain like you do. Of course, toys are available, too. But for special occasion outfits, you might want to consider checking out RentTheRunway for hands-down money-saving special occasion outfit and accessories rentals.

The Right Time and the Right Place

When it comes to online shopping, picking the right time and the right place can spell a huge difference. There is no doubt that we all wanted the best deals making us scour the web for one. But time is of essence when it comes to online shopping. If you want to know the difference, try CamelCamelCamel. A great site to give you an overview on current prices of commodities, it can also give you tips on when the right time to buy such items and maximize your savings. If you are fond of comparing and contrasting prices from various websites, this is the go-to place for you.

Investing Your Money to Save More

If you want to save more, though, try to get your hands in investment schemes. What better channel to pursue than Investopedia. Enjoy free tutorials for beginners who wish to try their luck in the various sectors of the investment market. Check out mock tests and exercises that will give you hands-on experience on how to make it through investment schemes. If you are fond of the stock market, its stock market emulator would be a fine way to start.

Bonus: Daily Deals Right Next To You

This one is a personal favorite and can be a great way to know about deals right next to you. CitiesOnTheCheap is your best site to acquire local freebies and special deals. Take pleasure in downloadable coupons and free MP3s, too.

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These sites can help you plan your retirement, invest more effectively, and even save more money

There are so many ways to save and invest your money. These websites are just some of the thousands of available out there. Exercise caution though as the Internet is also a haven of predators lurking and waiting for that perfect chance to snatch off your hard-earned savings.

When it comes to business, you need to have the best strategies that will get people to say yes to you – even if you try to convince them without being in front of them literally. With the advantages of technology today, you can get your customers engaging in a conversation with you through sending catchy emails.

There are ways that you can apply in order to get them to respond to you. If you apply these ways, you can be sure to get their attention and get them to respond to you without having to beg them to at least notice you.

Tip #1 Use a Professional Looking Email Theme

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Tips to Writing Great Email Subject Line

Gone are the days where all you see is text and a white space background when writing emails. Now you have the full customization power in your hands to make it attractive, catchy and most of all worth given the attention to. Look for themes that you can use in order to give your email a little more life than what it says. Make sure to pick themes that are not dry, old, grungy looking. Choose ones that are fresh, professional and attractive to the type of customers that you are trying to reach and most of all something that would relate to your website’s theme or at least its niche.

Tip #2 Be Conversational Sounding Than Otherwise

It’s better to sound conversational than to sound very obvious that you’re trying to sell something even on your email. Customers who are very familiar of how marketers or salespeople do their sales pitches will easily spot that you’re trying to sell them something when you write your emails the traditional way. You have to make sure that you sound more like conversational than otherwise. If you could send an email which can only contain good stuff that would benefit them, do that first before you send one where you’d be selling them something right away.

Tip #3 Ask Questions and Find Out What They Think About Your Topic

Treat your email like as if it was a blog post but make sure not to make it too long. This means that just like in a blog post, you should also ask them questions. If you state a topic, make sure to get their ideas about it and get them to respond to you. Start up a conversation – that should be your goal. Make sure to ask them not just their opinion about what you’re trying to tell them but also get their suggestions if they have any. It’s always a good way to get them to engage in a conversation with you and at the same time give yourself a chance for improvement.

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Create a Catchy Headline

When you create your emails while keeping these in mind, getting them to respond to it would be easy as a piece of cake.